I still consider myself to be a new mom. I’m still figuring everything out, you know?
I make new rules for the family. And then break them.
I establish new standards. And fail to meet them.
I set new goals that I fear I will never reach.
Charlotte is my greatest accomplishment. Her very being. Her smile. Her laugh. Her everything. I just told HOS last night that we must have done something right to be blessed with this little girl.
No matter how proud I am and no matter what I do in my role as her mother, I feel like I’m never quite doing enough.
Charli is only 15 months old. I fear that my inadequacies will only expand as she gets older. I’ll finally understand one stage just in time for her to move on to another. Will I ever get mommy-hood right?
As it turns out, my feelings of failure have nothing to do with being “new.” All moms feel like we could and should be doing more. All we want is to be the very best version of ourselves, so we can be the very best moms. We are so busy looking into a mirror and seeing what we think we should be instead of seeing what we are in our children’s eyes.
The one who loves them forever.
Never in my life would I view myself as any of those things. Those words … Those are the dream. That’s what every mom yearns to be for her kids. And we had/have no idea that we we are those things and much, much more.
We may feel like new moms, making mistakes and questioning ourselves.
In our children’s eyes, we are mom.
And that is love.
How does this video change your perspective of yourself as a mom?